Currently doing research on Ergo baby carries. I think that might be a good option for Josh because they're basic colors but similarly designed to the beco.
-They require no tying (so theyre simple to learn how to use)
-have a thick waste for support
-padded straps
-hood for child
-can be worn numerous ways (tummy/tummy, cradle, back carry, etc)
-have a handful of neat and handy accessories (including the backpack attatchment)
here are a few pictures (choosing to pick pictures of a guy to show that guys can babywear too... and it doesn't look silly)
back carry
tummy/tummy carry
backpack accessory on left - hip carry on right
cradle carry with infant insert
this definitely has a good spot in the possibility list for trying out down the road